I get the holding hands thing. But my situation was that any partner i had would never hold hands with me because my hands are clammy and tend to sweat when i hold hands. Sometimes feel like im missing out but the germs thing is pretty prominent- just thinking about all the stuff i come into contact with- especially in public school! Ech

ye exactly, and thats the same feeling i have towards kissing too, like… your digestive system… is touching MY digestive system…. your saliva is now in MY mouth and so youre… digesting me?? that hole in ur face is connected to your asshole??? that shit comes out of??? noooo thanks

i dont even know why i think so logically about it too but still… you know how many germs and bacteria we pass in one kiss?? like 20,000 no joke

awesomequacker:

there are asexuals who are entirely disgusted by sex

there are asexuals who are fine talking about sex but aren’t willing to have it themselves

there are asexuals who like sex in theory but not in practice

there are asexuals who dont really care for it but are happy to do it for someone they love

there are asexuals who enjoy or even love the stimulation of sex but have no actual need or craving for it; its just like any other activity to do with someone and can easily be replaced with literally anything else

there are asexuals who do have a sexdrive but its only triggered by a strong emotional attachment rather than physical factors

there are a whole bunch of asexuals and if i hear “lol so ur like a plant” one more time i swear to fucking god