jemthecrystalgem:

imqueerandangry:

i hate this fucking myth that going through a trauma makes you a better human being???? like i told a friend about how i was abused as kid and she was like ‘well yeah but didnt that make you be a kinder person?’ like no???? it fucked me up thats what it did??? stop fucking romanticizing this shit or im coming for your ass?????

Yes my PTSD, MDD, AVPD, etc. are all just me “being a kinder person” and not the debilitating effects of childhood trauma and abuse. /all of the sarcasm

rainingrhinestones:

everydayjewels:

sleepyclover:

people are allowed to leave you.
people are allowed to break up with you.
people are allowed to love you but not want to be with you.
people are allowed to not want to talk to you.
people are allowed to put their happiness before yours and do what makes them happy even if it does not include you.
people are allowed to move on from you.
people are allowed to fall in love with someone else.
people are allowed to not want you in their life.
people are allowed to do whatever they want to better themselves and become the version of themselves they are trying so hard to love.
don’t be bitter towards someone who is only trying to be happy.

I feel like this POV does not get enough voice.

i see lots of posts that serve as self-reminders that it’s okay to prioritize your own happiness, safety, and comfort and it’s important not to forget that other people are allowed to do that, too

transbigboss:

@boys who have to wear bras because binding hurts too much regardless of the fact that you’re doing it right: i love you, you’re so important
@boys whose chests are too big and have to wear bras because you can’t bind: i love you, you’re so important
@boys who don’t mind/like wearing bras: i love you, you’re so important
@boys who can’t bind because you haven’t come out yet it’d potentially put you in danger: i love you, you’re so important

@boys who wear bras: please don’t think it makes you anything less, your chest is a man’s chest and i believe in you & love you so so much

dragimal:

classicalphan:

trans-sweden:

whovianthatissherlocked:

rohxez:

the-perks-of-being-a-wallmaster:

what-thehale:

thatoneartyishperson:

stopfrnkiero2k15:

mcr-serenity:

aphprussia:

tiny-bubble:

odinsnotwearingmakeup:

itsstuckyinmyhead:

marauderstrio:

ukuleleblake:

borkyno:

i see all these british memes and i think we need to make a list of american memes

  • flo from progressive
  • the midwest
  • how big is alaska
  • jeopardy review games
  • spIRIT WEEK
  • jake from statefarm
  • it’s not car insurance, it’s all state
  • “mayhem is coming”
  • “nothing could replace brad”
  • kahoot
  • BILL BILL BILL BILL BILL BILL BILL BILL BILL BILL
  • thanks obama
  • idk my bff jill
  • kids who take kickball way to seriously
  • HI, BILLY MAYS HERE
  • target [t-are-j-ey]
  • texas
  • 1-800-steamer
  • threatening to move to Canada

•Shirley temple DVD set
•IT MAKES MY PATIO 20 DEGREES COOLER!!

  • making fun of east coast/south when they can’t handle snow

• its a pillow its a pet its a piLLOW PET

  • CALL J.G. WENTWORTH, 877 CASH NOW

• 800-588-2300 empire (today)

• really annoying geico commercials

  • ch-ch-ch-ch-chia!
  • California’s drought
  • now YOU have a friend in the diamond business-Shane Co.

• Call now for the Midnight Fire Collection
• SUNSETTER RETRACTABLE AWNINGS ARE MADE IN AMERICA
• Everything about that Tony Chopper commercial thing

• It’s my money and I want it NOW
• The Generals insurance

Education connection

hi, i’m sarah mclachlan.. *in the aaarms of the aaaangels*

save money, live better, Wal-Mart

how is it that 90% of American memes here are purely ad references

fempoli:

lesfemale:

cooldude2819:

lesfemale:

being a female means avoiding eye contact with men to not draw attention to yourself as a potential target

Being a male mean avoiding eye contact with women because they might think we are ugly

hmm yes being a target of abuse is equivalent to thinking you’re ugly

this is literally it. male idea of oppression is women not being sexually available to them when they want them to be. that’s why whiny internet men cry so much about the friend zone. this is literally it for them.

“Men are afraid that women will laugh at them. Women are afraid that men will kill them.” – Margaret Atwood

awfully relevant.