Asexual Sexual Orientations 101

Sex Positive: I don’t feel sexual attraction but I do enjoy the physical sensation of sex. (Maybe even crave it!)

Sex Neutral: I can have sex but I don’t need it. To be honest I have no strong feelings about sex. But a slice of pizza would be better.

Sex Repulsed: I don’t like sex. I don’t want to have sex. I’m not going to have sex with you. I understand that people enjoy sex but I do not.

The presence of a labido does not invalidate any of these orientations. Dicks jokes and sexual humor do not invalidate these asexuals. These orientations are a SPECTRUM and are very fluid. Asexuals can and do exist in between theses definitions.

Character Exercise: Two Truths and a Lie

elumish:

Do Two Truths and a Lie for each of your (main) characters.

For those of you who don’t know, Two Truths and a Lie is an icebreaking game where each person comes up with two true facts and one lie about themselves, and everyone has to guess which is the lie.

This is not just an exercise in coming up with two truths and a lie for each of your characters. It’s an exercise in figuring out how each characters would play. Would they use it as an icebreaker to teach people about them, or would they play to trick everyone and not have anyone guess the lie? Would it be a way to brag about who they know or what they’ve done, or would it be uncomfortable because they feel like they haven’t done anything, or because they feel like they’ve done too much and don’t want to brag? Would they play strategically? Would they have trouble coming up with two interesting facts about themselves? Would they lie for all of them?

If you want to take it a step further, write a scene where all of your characters were playing this with each other, and figure out what each person would guess.

corgins:

  • YOGA PANTS ARE COMFY
  • LEGGINGS ARE COMFY
  • BAGGY T-SHIRTS AND SHORTS ARE COMFY
  • UGGS ARE COMFY
  • STARBUCKS IS WARM AND COMFORTING AND DELICIOUS
  • SELFIES BOOST YOUR EGO LIKE YEAH FRIEND YOU FEEL YOURSELF
  • LET GIRLS LIKE A THING
  • WITHOUT MAKING FUN OF THEM FOR LIKING THE THING
  • GIRLS ARE NOT INHERENTLY JOKES FOR YOU TO LAUGH AT