alphabuttnoodlesoup replied to your post

Honey, even if you are ace and not sexually active…

I don’t think they were trying to be patronizing, I think they just were concerned.

that’s possible

but they could have sent that message 100 other ways and have it be 100% less condescending than this tbh. that tone used? that “honey? is the tone people use to talk to children when they do something that they should know not to do. NOT a tone you use when talking to someone under the guise of being concerned.