jemthecrystalgem:

imqueerandangry:

i hate this fucking myth that going through a trauma makes you a better human being???? like i told a friend about how i was abused as kid and she was like ‘well yeah but didnt that make you be a kinder person?’ like no???? it fucked me up thats what it did??? stop fucking romanticizing this shit or im coming for your ass?????

Yes my PTSD, MDD, AVPD, etc. are all just me “being a kinder person” and not the debilitating effects of childhood trauma and abuse. /all of the sarcasm